Douglas Coupland’s “Five Rules for Writers” was recently assigned to me as part of my creative writing course required reading. His bonus advice – “Dreams are boring. Don’t write about them.” And because I like to live life on the edge and break rules*, I’m going to do exactly what he suggested I avoid.
*This comment is laced with sarcasm. I just like to pretend I’m a bad ass… I really just wanted to write about my dream, regardless of what Mr. Coupland recommends.
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I can’t remember the exact setting, but I do remember I was told I had 24 hours left to live. I feel like it was some weird zombie-inducing disease… or maybe I just made that up? Either way, my husband was by my side when I received the news. He turned to me and asked, “What do you want to do?” I quickly realized travelling to the Amazon for my dream exploration trip wasn’t an option. I responded, “I want to be with you.” So, dream-me, and dream-him crawled into bed (it wasn’t our bed… which is slightly frightening now that I think about it), and cuddled. As my expiration clock counted down the hours, minutes, seconds, remaining in my life earth-side, I decided that I also wanted to write letters. I pulled out my laptop and started writing to my family, friends, and husband. I told all them not to be sad because I had no regrets. I lived the life I wanted for myself and I’ve experienced the things I’ve wanted to experience. I pursued my dreams and I loved where I was and what I had accomplished.
Weird dream, I know… , but I woke up happy. I was impressed with dream Ali. It was also an interesting experience to reflect on, even if it was only a dream. Or, if Coupland is correct, maybe I’m the only one who finds it interesting. I digress.
My question for you, what would you do if you were told you only had 24 hours remaining? Would you tell your friends and family, or keep the information private? It’s a slightly morbid discussion, I realize this, but I’m really curious what everyone’s response to this would be!
Wonderful,option Ali.
I would cook an amazing meal for my three men & play games, hang out and hopefully laugh for 24 hrs. Doing something fun and memorable for them to hold on to until I seen them again. Love them, hug them and enjoy ever last minute with the ones I cherish the most. That’s what I do!
That’s beautiful, Christine! I love your comment about laughing and doing something fun. I would hope to do the same if I was put in a situation like this in real life. Thanks for commenting, I knew your response would be something along these lines :)
I would immediately congregate my family together and tell them how each one has made my life so special! I would thank them for every moment we spent together and how happy and proud I am of them. My life is my family and that is what I lived and loved for.
Awe, Mom is getting sappy :)
I love this! I would spend the day with my husband and son, make them laugh as much as I could and try to soak in the little giggles and the feel of baby’s soft skin.